8.25.2017

10 SIGNS HE'S RIGHT FOR YOU


Whether you are currently in a relationship or if like me, you have learned a few valuable lessons from past relationships, these tips are for you. I have been the girl who continuously went back and forth about if a guy was right for me or not, having to make tough decisions resulting in the outcome of a relationship. These are super helpful in providing confidence in what to do and ultimately who God is guiding you to. Disclaimer: All of these points apply to us ladies as well! Relationships are meant to be 100%/100%.

HE LEADS YOU CLOSER TO JESUS
Ladies, real men love Jesus. There’s a special connection unlike anything else when Jesus is the center of your relationship. When you both believe in something greater than yourselves, you are rewarded in so many more meaningful ways. It opens doors of communication, trust, hope, honesty, and is ultimately a solid foundation for you and your man. Difficult times will come between you two, having a strong faith to pray yourselves through them will work miracles.

HE SUPPORTS YOU AND YOUR OPPORTUNITIES
So you just got a job promotion that requires moving across the country or perhaps you were accepted to a university hundreds of miles away from your man. What is his reaction? This comes down to supporting one another and if you feel strong enough about the two of you together that you are willing to work harder for that relationship. Exciting opportunities should be met with people who support you and your new adventures.

HE MAKES YOU LAUGH
What would life be without humor? Consider the tough times when you will be faced with challenges to overcome together, are you able to find the lighter side through those? Simply being able to put a smile on your face through a difficult time will make a huge difference in conquering life’s hardships.

YOU ARE PROUD TO INTRODUCE HIM TO FAMILY AND FRIENDS
This one may seem obvious. But sometimes it’s easy to simply fall in love with who he is when he’s with you and you alone. Do you proudly say, “Yes, this is him, the one I have been telling you all about.” when you introduce him to your loved ones?

HE TREATS YOU WITH LOVE + RESPECT
We all have our “ugly” side meaning when we are at our absolute lowest point whether that be anger, sadness, disappointment, how do we respond to those deep emotions? Do we take it out on others or find time to cool down before blowing up at one another? How he responds to you will be very telling of just how loving and respectful he is.

HE HAS THE SAME LIFE GOALS
Say you’ve been dating for a while and yeah, it’s been fun and you’ve enjoyed your time together so far, but when it comes down to your goals in life, do they match? Are you both on the same wavelength as far as a future together, travel plans, settling down, careers financially, etc?

HIS VALUES AND MORALS LINE UP WITH YOURS
There are certain values and morals that us ladies should have set prior to any relationship, ones that show self respect. Once we have those set in place it is important that your man knows what they are and if all goes well, he will have similar values and morals to you so you both can support each other through them. If they don’t align, temptations will eventually strengthen and one of you may end up losing sight of your personal beliefs.

HE IS PERCEIVED WELL BY FAMILY/FRIENDS
The way people react to him says a lot about who he is as a person and his “true identity” once you move past the surface level part of the relationship. Keep in mind that who you surround yourself with reflects a lot about you.

YOU ARE IN LOVE WITH HIM, NOT THE IDEA OF HIM
I am completely guilty of this. I am a romantic, I love date nights and cutesy couple things. So it is very easy for me to fall in love with the idea of a relationship and not with the guy himself. Crazy how our hearts work sometimes. I think once you can confidently say you can see a blossoming future with this man, then you are on the right path.

YOU BOTH COMPROMISE
Let’s be real, compromise can be hard. Especially for us stubborn ladies am I right? Determine what exactly you are willing to compromise at the beginning of the relationship and make sure he does the same to get a better idea of where you both are coming from.


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